It’s been a while, months, maybe years, haven’t really touched this blog in a while and I have been focused mostly on growing an Instagram audience while this one was left to die. Keeping active throughout all the platforms is tiring especially when you’re struggling with a full time job.
Anyway, let’s cut to the chase; recently I’ve finished one of my favourite series ( again ) “How I met Your Mother ” and there was one thing i forgot about in the last season , one quote that’s now stuck with me .
When the womaniser idolised by many realises chasing women is not the answer but finding one to stick with is the key of happiness.
“My game is at it’s peak now” says him apparently happy and with no worry in the world, a man that through 9 seasons only chased women and slept with over 200.
“do you want to keep playing the game or do you want to win?”
That right there is the realest quote I’ve seen in a tv show and the way it was acted and said was unreal and froze my body with chills.
Now consider what’s said above an introduction to the point I’m going to make and let’s move on .
For 21 years I’ve been playing the game as well, my friends did and still do, we men aren’t the smartest of the specie, when it comes to women we like to try as many as possible, like a kid first time visiting a candy shop, we don’t know where to start from and most of us never know when to stop. We think being with dozens of women is cool, that fucking as much as possible makes us superior or alpha-male, call it however you want.
Every women is a new level and as we fiercely climb the ladder we run out of time, we wake up late, when we’re 40 and we settle for whatever comes our way, we know we can’t die alone and fear cripples us .
I am one of the lucky few
I met a girl
And she became my everything.
She changed everything I thought I knew about love,
She made me understand that the game is a hoax,
She became my queen of hearts,
And I have never been happier.